Your elopement or micro-wedding is more than just a ceremony, it’s an entire experience. It’s a day (or even a few days) dedicated to celebrating your love in a way that’s authentic and intentional. But without a traditional timeline or big reception, you might find yourself wondering, What do we actually do on our elopement day?

Whether you’re hiking into the mountains or exchanging vows in your backyard, this list will inspire you with unique, fun, and meaningful ways to celebrate intentionally.

Why Your Elopement Day Deserves A Full Experience

Gone are the days when ‘eloping’ meant running in secret to the courthouse with little more than a marriage license and a moment. Today, couples are reclaiming elopements and micro-weddings as deeply intentional celebrations of love. And just like any traditional wedding, your elopement day can (and should) be a full-day experience.

This is your chance to design a day that reflects who you are as a couple. Whether you’re adventurers, homebodies, romantics, or rule-breakers, your elopement day should feel like the ultimate date and celebration of your love.

Ideas for Meaningful Ways to Spend Your Elopement or Micro-wedding Day

Ideas for Ways to Spend the Morning Together

The morning hours of your elopement day are incredibly important, as they will set the tone for the rest of your day.

  • Experience sunrise at a beautiful location
  • Prepare a special breakfast together
  • Play instruments together
  • Share a bubble bath before you get ready for the day
  • Read letters from family or friends who couldn’t attend
  • Exchange love notes or gifts with each other
  • Make some time to journal and reflect on the day ahead
  • Share the moment you write your vows for each other
  • Get matching tattoos

Ideas for Adventurous and Outdoor Activities

A great advantage of eloping is the ability to spend your day doing anything you can dream of. The outdoors offers so many unique ways to create memorable experiences on your elopement day, as well as breathtaking photos opportunities.

  • Hike to a breathtaking location for your ceremony
  • Take a scenic canoe or kayak ride together
  • Plan a 4×4 off-road adventure to a remote location
  • Go horseback riding through open meadows or forest trails
  • Charter a helicopter or hot air balloon
  • Spend the evening stargazing or roasting s’mores by a fire

Ideas for Ways to Celebrate with Your Friends and Family

A micro-wedding is a great day to craft a day that makes space for moments with just the two of you, as well as moments with your closest loved ones.

  • Spend a slow morning together sharing breakfast
  • Share letters / meaningful gifts with your loved ones
  • Explore a new hike together
  • Share a picnic after your ceremony at a beautiful location
  • Host an intimate dinner at an Airbnb or restaurant
  • Spend an evening playing yard or board games
  • Gather around a camp fire sharing stories

Ideas for Meaningful Traditions or Rituals to Incorporate

Even though you may be planning an elopement or micro-wedding, you still have the option to include any part from a traditional wedding day that’s meaningful to you!

  • Plan a first look with each other
  • Hand-fasting ritual during your ceremony
  • If you’re having a ceremony with friends and family, consider exchanging vows in private
  • Share a cake cutting
  • Share a first dance in a beautiful location
David | Your Photographer

Hi! I’m David, elopement and intimate wedding photographer based in Denver Colorado, and available worldwide.

As an elopement photographer, I love helping couples through the process of planning and dreaming up their unique wedding experiences.

If you’re in the process of planning your own elopement or micro-wedding, I hope this list inspired you to craft a unique and intentional day that reflects your unique connection and personalities!

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